second chance, second choice and second thought

am watching batman beyond episode 44 "out of the past"... Taylia talked to Bruce that no one has earned the second chance more than Bruce. Then I thought... do I have a second chance or second choice... I believe that I have choices, lot of choices for my life but is it ok if I choose another choice. Do I deserve a second chance? Is it OK if I have a second thought.... hmm...