Addicted to Utopia

OH NO, I've just realized that I'm addicted to utopia (http://games.swirve.com/utopia/). Yesterday, I logged in to the game for 6 hours, and today I spent 4 hours just to check info about my province (*actually it's my friends' province*) . How did I start playing utopia? I promised my friend to maintain her province during her vacation to her hometown for 1 month. Then... after being tought many things from her & her boyfriend how to play the game, I was getting more and more interested in it. I think about:
+I have to cast spells 8 hours later to protect my (*my friend's*) province
+How many more acres can I get for my (*my friend's*) province?
+Is there anything happenning to my (*my friend's*) province, I'm really worried because the kingdom is involved in war.
Arrgghhh... I'm aware that I shouldn't be addicted to it... but really.. I couldn't throw away my thought about logging in the page everytime I have a chance.